How to Have a Threesome — The Right Way!
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How to Have a Threesome — The Right Way!

Been thinking about having a threesome? Communication & trust is key. Threesomes can get complex. For many couples this can mean the end to a relationship. Threesomes can strengthen and reignite relationships as well when handled the right way. Our team of writers at Cupids Catch sat down and interviewed hundreds of successful marriages who’ve engaged in threesomes. We’ll go over how to have a threesome in a healthy, relationship-building approach that will leave all parties smiling at the end. Threesomes: Studies in Sex, Power, and Intimacy →

Threesomes can also strengthen and reignite relationships… when handled the right way.

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Threesomes aren’t new — or as taboo as you might think.

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There’s references to group sex in Roman art and literature going back centuries. Though they were the rage in the day, straight-laced America turned it into a taboo for decades. Things are definitely becoming more common in contemporary society now. Since the 2000s, there’ been more openness in talking about them — very much related to people being exposed to a multitude of different sexual behaviors and activities through pornography.

As sex between people of the same sex loses its stigma, threesomes are becoming more acceptable.

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You’re not the only one thinking about threesomes either. One US study published last year found that 82% of male and 31% of female respondents to an online survey of heterosexual 18-24 year-olds said they were interested in having a threesome.

So why do threesomes get a bad rap? Religion and main stream media. Portrayals like in Zoolander, where a threesome quickly turns into a mass orgy and alarming articles turn threesome into what the low & immoral do.

As well as internet access, I think greater acceptance of homosexuality and LGBT groups is playing a part. As sex between people of the same sex loses its stigma, a greater array of behaviours, including threesomes, become acceptable.

How to Have a Threesome — 3 Rules of Threesomes

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Deciding to have a threesome can be complex, having a threesome shouldn’t. Our writers found that from the marriages who’ve had threesome, these 3 rules are good guidelines to start with.

Rule #1: Communication is key.

Rule #2: Trust is a must.

Rule #3. Relax & don’t overthink it.

Still a little nervous about how to have a threesome? Check out this interview by Carina Hsieh and Lane Moore on what it’s really like to have a threesome.

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